Hi is he my friend or never was? I know him since 3rd grade?

yes you deserve better, it sounds like he as used your generosity to get by, what a nasty Peace of work,you seem like a really good friend, and now he has got work ,and friends,he� no longer needs you.if that were me i would completely ignore him, unless its to do with work.hopefully he will get the message, and look for another job.good luck, and keep on smiling. xxx