Identity Crisis vs ity?

honestly, I think it sounds more like an identity crisis. Also, you have to consider that many women that have had relationships, and/or marriages previously with a man...tend to turn to a woman to have more understanding as they have lost all hope in the opposite . I have thought the same thing. If you date a woman(or man) that dresses, talks, acts, and performs ually as the opposite ...then why not just date that ??? hmmmm let me know when you find this one out